Stop Trying ... Just Surrender

Once you’ve made the desires of your heart known to your mind the universe has already begun doing its work to produce the results that you really really need. Instead of praying for love, a new job, new car, etc., just set your intentions on creating peace in your life.

Letting yourself know that all you really want is to experience love. And while you may not know exactly what is going to bring that feeling into your life. What you do know is that you want it and that you are focusing your thoughts on having it. Not the lack there of.

Trusting that every desire of your heart, is something that you deserve to be, do or have is enough. There’s nothing else that you have to do in order to experience the love, joy or peace that you are seeking.

Of course every desire needs a goal every goal requires action. This doesn’t mean that you sit back and just hope and dream about things occurring in your life that you would like. What it does mean though, is that you focus your thoughts only on those things, not the how.

Those are the details that are left for the divine to figure out on your behalf. What you get to do is just focus on the results. Without necessarily being attached to the outcome.

Its kinda tricky, right?

Identify what you want.  Focus all of your thoughts on it.  Then let it go; and TRUST that it will manifest in perfect time. 

And that is where most of us get stuck.

For instance, we say, "I want more money". Then we stop and we get stuck in the wanting. Then our thoughts begin to focus on what is causing the wanting. Which in the case of money, is typically the lack of money in your bank account.

So if your thoughts are focused on what isn’t there, then that is what you will continue to experience more of that: Lack, scarcity, a.k.a. stress. However if you shift your focus on to what is there: opportunity, availability, and most importantly limitless abundance. You will experience more of that.

I know that it’s hard sometimes to wrap your brain around this idea that if you focus your thoughts and intentions on something specific that it will without doubt manifest.  Because we say to ourselves, "if I want more money just sitting here in thinking about having it isn’t making the numbers my bank account go up".

However, if you do pause, and really pay attention that money is showing up all around you. For instance I get money in my bank account every single day. Do the increments change, hell yeah they do! However I set the intention that my income increases every day.

The result is that my income increases every day.

Which means that I receive Money every single day. When I set the intention to see more money every single day that’s exactly what I started seeing. The world that we live in obviously is a very material world and the use of money as currency is a big part of our existence. However, money will not will create peace. Money will not create joy. Money will not create love.

The joy, the peace and the love that we desire, we create that first and then the money just has a magical way of showing up. This does not mean that we don’t experience setbacks. Or we don’t experience times when the numbers in our bank account started dwindle. And we start to get phone calls from Bill collectors and apartment managers threatening to shut our shit down if we don’t make our payment ASAP.

Of course shit like that happens from time to time. It will happen more frequently if you are continuing to focus on what’s missing. Instead of shifting your awareness to what’s coming. More importantly what is already available. The only thing preventing it from showing up in your life is your own resistance. 

So it’s very important that you protect your gates and surrender your fears. What this means is that you cannot "afford" so to speak, to allow, the thoughts ideas and beliefs of those who do not get how this game is played, to enter into your mind. For when you do so, you literally only slow down the process, create more resistance, which is overall preventing you from receiving exactly what you want.

It may sound a little kooky, strange, or even extreme. But the way that I see it, this is my life.  I am playing buy my own set of rules.  I do not have the time, energy or the effort to allow anyone else’s limited thinking to disrupt my flow. Because every time that I do pause even for a moment, to allow the limited thinking of another person to enter my mind and leave an imprint, almost immediately my shit is all the way fucked up.

It takes twice as much work to regain momentum that’s been stopped, then it does to maintain momentum that is already in motion. Don’t let anyone disrupt your flow. You can’t afford it.

There are people in our lives, that mean well. They really do. We honor and love them for that. But it is sometimes the actions, thoughts, and ideas of some of the most well-meaning people, that actually create a huge distraction away from the things that we are literally creating in our lives.

Some folks can’t quite wrap their brain around this whole "Law Of Attraction, thoughts become things, you are in full control of manifesting each and everything that you wanted your life", type thinking. They think it’s cool. They might clap a hand, or snap a finger, or nod their head in response to it. But deep down they don’t believe it.

They are still attached to archaic thinking that tells them that they have to wait until they die to experience joy.  They have to wait till they die to experience real wealth.  More importantly they have to wait until they die to experience freedom.

That is not what I believe. That is not what my chosen family believes. That is not what the people that I choose to surround myself believe. We, believe that we can experience all of the joy, all of the peace, all the wealth, all of the happiness, all of the love, all of the freedom that we can possibly conceive now. In this life. Currently. Not later on.

I’m not making emotional, spiritual, and mental deposits into my life so that I can experience it later on I’m doing the work now. So that I can experience those things now.

When I say doing the work, I’m talking about playing by my own rules. I’m talking about standing up for what I believe to be real, authentic, and what I deserve. I’m talking about not settling. I’m talking about not allowing the limitations of others, to dictate my destiny. I’m talking about dictating my own destiny. 

I’m talking about knowing, that what I know, what I believe, is exactly what I experience. I’m talking about knowing that I am the sum of my thoughts. Knowing that I am unstoppable.  Knowing that I am capable, deserving, and able to create each and every experience that I possibly want.

If I allow the thoughts, beliefs, or limited ideas of others to influence me, that is when I experience resistance and that is when the flow is slowed down. I will not allow that to happen anymore. And neither should you.

What you can do is stop trying; and just surrender.  Surrender you resistance.  Surrender your doubts, fears and worries.  Just trust that the Source of your power is limitless; and no matter how many times you hear others say, "Never! Can't! Won't!" or any other lies of limitation to you -just press on passed it.  Stop trying and just surrender. 

You know deep down what is true for you.  Allow that to guide you. 

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